When people find out that my kids are homeschooled, one of the first questions I often hear is:
“But what about sports, band, or other activities? Don’t they miss out?” (Psst…this is just another version of the “socialization” question!)

The truth? My kids are deeply involved in extracurriculars—and I believe these opportunities are just as valuable as what happens around our homeschool table.

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Why Extracurriculars Matter for Homeschoolers

Extracurriculars aren’t just “add-ons.” They teach the need for discipline, time management and teamwork. They allow my children to build long lasting friendships and create deep connections outside the home. My kids are given the opportunity to explore new passions and discover hidden talents (even if it means you need to buy a large stock of earplugs and bandaids), and the provide hands-on, real-life learning that supports and complements their academics. From my own experience, some of the most meaningful lessons my kids have learned have come through these activities—not a textbook.

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Opportunities for Homeschool Families

The good news is: homeschoolers have access to a wide range of opportunities. Here are just a few places to start:

• Sports – Many local schools, private leagues, or community programs welcome homeschoolers. Some states even have laws ensuring access to public school sports.
• FFA/4-H – Agriculture, leadership, and life skills all rolled into one. These programs are incredibly hands-on and practical.
• Theater & Arts – Community theaters, children’s theater groups, or local arts councils often thrive with homeschool participation.
• Band & Music – Look for community bands, private lessons, homeschool co-op groups, or youth orchestras.
• Clubs & Service – Scouts, robotics clubs, coding teams, or volunteering can give kids teamwork and leadership experiences.
• Church Groups– Local church youth groups offer volunteer opportunities, connection points, and the opportunity to get involved with others that are in the same place in life and share the same world view.

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Tips for Getting Started

1. Ask Around – Other homeschool families are often the best resource for finding opportunities. One of the best places to connect with other homeschoolers in your area is through local Facebook groups.
2. Start Small – One or two activities at a time is plenty. Don’t overload your family schedule. Each of my kids are involved in 2 extra actvities plus their church involvement. It does feel overwhelming at times, but as long as we are consistent with our scheduling we are able to make it work. Do what works for your family.
3. Follow Your Child’s Passion – What lights them up? Sports? Animals? Music? Start there. Be willing to make changes as they grow. Did you start with baseball but now your child is interested in soccer? That is alright-find where they want to be.
4. Remember Balance – Extracurriculars should enrich, not overwhelm. Protect family and learning time. One big rule in our home is when it becomes more work to get you willing to attend practices, rehearsals, games or performances it is time to find a new place to be. Extracurriculars need to be enjoyable as well as enriching.

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Real Life Homeschool Hub Takeaway

Homeschooling doesn’t limit your child’s world—it opens it up. In fact, the longer my kids have homeschooled, the more I have discovered about what they get excited about and a lot of that has come through their involvement with local community organizations. Whether they’re hitting a baseball, performing on stage, raising animals in 4-H, or cheering in a local competition cheer team, these experiences shape confident, capable, well-rounded kids.

Homeschooling gives you the freedom to choose what works best for your family—and extracurriculars are a beautiful part of that journey.

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Have your kids been involved in extracurriculars? What’s been the most meaningful for them? Share in the comments—I’d love to hear your stories!